so i ended up going to my friend's party, the theme was "models & bottles"(picture to follow). it was very fun, but at the same time another party was going on but felt bad if i ditched my friend for the other guys. anyway,
3pm
i ended up extending the invite to only 2 ppl, my friend L and Ron. L immediately accepted and i was excited to have her come out w me. so, remember how i had said Ron asked to meet up on the wkend? well, i thought it would be nice to have 2 days. his reply was that he was at work (i already knew this) but that he was going to try to be out by 10. i i said, "perfect! i am not arriving prior to 1030pm anyway."
... all seemed to be settled...
midnight,
at my big brother's party (he likes to think he's my older bro).
L and i having a blast. have not heard from Ron. i txt him asking if he's ok and if he is still working. he says yes (Ron is not in my industry, but let's just say he's probably borderline of it, so he's a very busy man regardless).
1am
Ron's txt: i am finished, should i head out there?
me: idk. up to you. this place is done at 2.
my brother and friends are asking where this mystery man is, bc since we had a VIP spot, we had to let the bouncer know to just let him in to our area. we call it a night, and no word or appearance from Ron.
Sunday afternoon (the day we were supposed to go out)
Ron: Hi, sorry about last night. did you have fun?
me: yes i did
Ron: is it ok if we hang out tomorrow instead? my buddy's parent died today, and he's an only child.
you probably think i am a flake but i am not. things have just gotten hectic.
me: i understand, ok. let me know if there is any way i can help.
to be honest, i am not disgruntled in ANY way bc we are only friends. i left it at that. this situation did not even perturb my thoughts all day.
Sunday evening:
a txt from Mr. London (the history between this lad and myself will be later posted).
the time-sporadic conversation thread led to nearly 1am. he is currently out of town, but returns in a few days... wants to meet up.
i love my life. everything is up in the air, not committing to anything or anyone. we shall see what happens this week.
"la vida no es para esperarla, es para vivirla"
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